
I was building an infographic for our MAP group call last week, mapping out the full customer lifecycle, and somewhere in that process, a reframe hit me that I haven't been able to shake.
The funnel isn't just a path. It's a filter.
That sounds obvious when you say it out loud. But I don't think most coaches are actually building their content that way.
Here's what I mean. There are two philosophies regarding content.
The first is to get as many eyes as possible on your content and let the funnel sort things out.
The second is to be intentional about who you're pulling in at the top so that the people who reach the bottom are already pre-qualified.
Most coaches default to the first one. Viral reels, trending audio, broad hooks designed to capture the algorithm. And there's nothing wrong with that if you've got a middle-of-funnel that does its job.
The problem is that most coaches skip the middle entirely.
So they get the eyes, the follower count ticks up, maybe even the DMs start coming in. But the sales calls? They're talking to the wrong people. Low budget, wrong goals, wrong mindset. And then they blame their sales skills.
The sales call isn't where things go wrong. The filter is.
If you're consistently getting on calls that don't convert, look upstream. Who are you pulling in at the awareness stage? And more importantly, what content do you have in the knowledge stage that pre-selects for your ideal client and weeds out everyone else?
Your middle-of-funnel content should be doing two things simultaneously: pulling the right people closer and making the wrong people self-select out. That's a filter.
If someone reads a detailed post about why aggressive cuts destroy long-term performance and decides it's not for them, that's the filter working. You don't want that person on a call.
If someone watches a video where you explain exactly how you coach, your philosophy, your expectations of a client, and they bounce? Perfect.
The people who stay are the ones who resonate with the way you think. And if someone resonates with how you think before they ever get on a call with you, that call is a formality.
I've seen this play out in our group. Andrew was hammering reels a few months back, getting solid reach, but the conversions weren't coming. When we looked at his page, the problem was clear: lots of awareness content, almost no middle-of-funnel. People were landing on his profile with no idea what it would be like to work with him. There was nothing to filter them in or out.
We shifted his focus. More depth. More specificity. More content that communicated his actual process and philosophy. And the calls that started coming in were different.
The other side of this is worth naming too. If you're saying no on calls because people aren't a fit, the filter is working. Don't let that frustrate you. A filter that keeps the wrong people out is doing exactly what it should.
I'd rather have three calls a week with coaches who are genuinely ready than ten calls with people who were never going to buy.
The question worth sitting with: if someone spent an hour on your content right now, would they come away knowing exactly who you're for and who you're not? Or would they just know that you're a coach?
Keep Raising the Bar,
Paul Oneid MS, MS, CSCS

Coaches Corner PhD